Podcast

For my podcast I am thinking about using the text, "Best Friends Wear Pink Tutus" which deals with gender stereotypes. I would discuss the title: why is it tutus? Why not cleats? Can't best friends be girls who play soccer together? The girls also have a big fight over who would play the lead role. Why do girls always have to compete against one another? Also, why can't a boy be in ballet class? Why can't the best friends be little boys?

Though I remember loving the book when I was little, thinking back on it, I think this book reflects gender stereotypes. That is an important issue to discuss when it comes to children's literature. Girls should be able to do everything boys can do and this book makes me ask the question, why can't they?

Quotable Quotes

"Don't touch me," said the girl. "I want to be sick by myself."

"That's impossible," said her mother. She continued to rub her back and the girl did not push her away." (Otsuka, 26)

I feel that this quote is significant on two levels. The first level is that while the girl wants to be by herself she will never be alone for a long time. On the train there are many passengers and so everyone will know she is sick. When they go to the camp the girl will never be alone because there are people everywhere. Her days of privacy are gone and she will be sharing space for years to come.

On another level this quote is significant because once you are a part of a family you are never alone. The mother tells her daughter that it is impossible, but she does not give tell her why. On a deeper level the mother is saying that she will always be there and that the girl will never be alone. This is significant because the girl's father is gone, but it makes the mother that much more important. No matter what, the mother will always be there. The girl seems to understand this because as the passage says she does not push her mother away, she allows her to continue comforting her. Otsuka seems to be making a statement about mothers and their children and how the bond between them is strong.

"One evening as the boy's mother was hauling back a bucket of water from the washroom she ran into her former housekeeper, Mrs. Ueno. "When she saw me she grabbed the bucket right out of my hands and insisted upon carrying it home for me. 'You'll hurt your back again,' she said. I tried to tell her she no longer worked for me. 'Mrs. Ueno,' I said, 'here we're all equals,' but of course she wouldn't listen. When we got back to the barracks she set the bucket down by the front door and then she bowed and hurried off into the darkness. I didn't even get a chance to thank her."

"Maybe you can thank her tomorrow," said the boy.

"I don't even know where she lives. I don't even know what day it is."

"It's Tuesday, Mama." (Otsuka, 56)

This is a significant passage because it shows how desperate the people in the camp were to go back to their normal lives and how much of a toll it took on the characters, living in the camp.

Mrs. Ueno is so desperate to have normalcy in her life, she carries the bucket for her former employer, just to feel like she has a place in the world. Just to remind herself that there was a life outside of the camp.

The mother, on the other hand, shows what the situation is really like at the camp. She cannot even remember what day it is and that no one is better than anyone else. Camp is the great equalizer. I think this passage show the different ways that people lived there lives at the camp.

Positioning and Being Positioned

Hello My Names Are:

Rebecca, Becca, Bec, Becca-Do

Rebecca-This is the name that I go by most of the time and what I introduce myself as. This is the name I prefer over all others. This name is what everyone in my household calls me and basically all my friends call me by my full name and my teachers call me by this name as well. If you call me by this name than you really know me because you know this is the name that I want to be called. The position of this name is a daughter, a friend, a student, and an employee. When I go out into the real world and got my first job this is the name that people will know me by.

Becca-This is what some of my family friends call me and what one of my employers calls me. This name puts you at a disadvantage if you use it, because I feel like you do not really know me if you use it. Apparently when I was born this was the name I was called all the time, but it died out before I can even remember. This name comes from a position of a niece and close family friend.

Bec-I am only called this by two people, my Dad and my Uncle Larry. This name positions me as a daughter, my father's baby girl (even though I am not the baby of the family). It also positions me as a the little girl who would come running to give my uncle a hug. This name clearly gives you access into my life as it is a cute pet-name. Of course, both men use my full name when we are with a group of people, but when it is just me and my dad he calls me it and my uncle only calls me it when he hugs my hello and goodbye.

Becca-Do-This is the nickname my Aunt Deb gave me. This positions me into a niece who likes to goof around with her aunt. My Aunt Deb is very goofy and so whenever we are in a silly mood she calls me that. It is only used for family occasions, never when we are out in public.

Hello My Names Are Not

Becky

Becky-I absolutely detest this name. If you call me this, than you are a friend of my grandmother's because that is what she used to call me. This name puts me in the position of Bobbie's granddaughter. I would not use this name for any purpose whatsoever as I feel that it is very babyish and unprofessional.